Hi there,

Thank you for visiting our site. We are Phil and Gemma, and we’ve been going out for six years (since 2004). After two years of dating we started to take each other for granted, and got ourselves into a rut, forgetting to say and do all the nice things we did when our relationship was new.

We were both working long hours and were always too tired to make the effort to fix things. We went through a tough time for over a year and we very nearly split up. It was so unnecessary too, because we never stopped loving each other. If we had not found the answers in time, we would have wasted a very happy and fulfilling life together.

But that was before we educated ourselves.  Now we know that you can fix your relationship, no matter what the circumstances.

We hope you find this website rewarding, and that it helps you rekindle the love that you and your partner previously shared.

On this site we will share with you the information and resources we discovered that enabled us to repair our relationship, and ensured we didn’t fall into the same trap again. We will share anecdotes of how things went wrong, or nearly went wrong, and how we managed to learn from our mistakes.

You don’t need to make the mistakes we made. Make the decision to only allow positive vibes into your life, and refuse to let the negative ones grow.

We welcome your feedback and suggestions. Leave a comment on one of the blog posts or email us at Gemma AT StopThatBreakup.com.

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Wishing you all the best success in your relationship

Take care

Phil and Gemma